当我老了～

30 August 08 Saturday

I had read this article in a kopitiam when I having my lunch.. I found it meaningful to one's life and everyone should apply it to his life..

Not only me and you, your dad n mum, your siblings, your friends, and who ever around you..

To our parents, the person who had bring us up, c us grow up from a baby until they going to leave us one of the day, v are always their children in their eyes, and everything about us is as important to them.. But once v are growing up, they are getting older and they have no more abilities to take care of us, even themselves.. And whose responsibilities is that to take care of them, then?


The words deep inside parents' heart:

当我老了，不再是原来的我。
请理解我，对我有一颗耐心。

当我把菜汤洒在自己的衣服上时，当我忘记怎样系鞋带时，
请想一想当初我是如何手把手地教你。

当我一遍又一遍地重复你早已听腻的话语，
请耐心地听我说，不要打断我。
你小的时候，我不得不重复那个讲遍千百遍的故事，
直到你进入梦乡。

当我需要你帮我洗澡时，
请不要责怪我。
还记得小时候我千方百计哄你洗澡的情形吗？

当我对新科技和新事物不知所措时，
请不要嘲笑我。
想一想当初我怎样耐心地回答你的每一个[为什么]。

当我由于双脚疲劳而无法行走时，
请伸出你年轻有力的手搀扶我。
就像你小时候学习走路时，我扶你那样。

当我忽然忘记我们谈话的主题，
请给我一些时间让我回想。
其实对我来说，谈论什么并不重要，
只要你能在一旁听我说，我就很满足。

当你看着老去的我，请不要悲伤。
理解我，支持我，就像你刚开始学习如何生活时我对你那样。

当初我引导你走上人生的路，如今请陪伴我走完最后的路。
给我你的爱和耐心，我会还以感激的微笑。



Surely, you had listen all these words from the elderly, advising their kids to take care of them when they grown up.. Some of us, maybe feel that all these is just rubbish and v just care of ourselves then.. Do you even think that, if our parents have the same thought when v are still kids, and they do not even take care of us and bring us up, will you carry on your life until today? Will you having your handphone, your clothes, your house, study whatever course you want, and so on today? Can you just survive until today?

No!!
Maybe the answer is yes, but who gave birth you?

Your children will treat you as how you treat you parents.. How you want your children treat you?

So, first, we should appreciate our life without doing anything that will harm ourselves and live happily.. And then we can only take care of the one we really care and love around us, especially our parents and family..

Appreciate the time we had with our family and parents.. The time will never U-turn as it is over..
Apply it in your life start from now, it will never late.. Treat as well as you can when they are here..
[to your parents, family and friends]