别拿暧昧当爱情

29 August 08 Friday

I found this article from someone's blog and I felt it's quite accurate for today's world, especially the world of LOVE.. [uhm, maybe it strike into my heart at a sudden at this correct moment]

Maybe you found it correct or not, but it just depend on your own feeling~

your own feeling will always correct..

据说现在很流行暧昧,在这个纷繁的都市，朋友的事例太多:
你们认识很久,他天天朝九晚五嘘寒问暖的电话比你的钟表还要准时,你满心欢喜你开始心怀期待,就连做梦都会笑出来,可是他就是什么也不说,你对自己说等等再等等,直到有一天你看到他身边有了另一个身影,你震惊"不是...这是....我是.....?"

在朋友眼里你们很登对,每次聚会他做你的护花使者责无旁贷,你也发现自己对他有了些些的依赖,他总是不经意的拍拍你的肩很宠爱的揉揉你的发,朋友关于你们 之间无伤大雅的玩笑让你觉得很甜蜜你说你感觉幸福就在不远的地方.就在你以为一切都将水到渠成的时候睛天霹雳,他说他从没对你有过这种想法他说这是你的误 会.你呆住了"误会?那么多人前的亲昵.....竟...竟然是...误会.....?"

伤心吗?难过吗?痛苦吗?只是,只是谁让你把暧昧当爱情呢？

这是个暧昧横行的年代,感情出现的第三个种类,比友情深比爱情浅游走于二者的边缘这就是暧昧,是什么时候开始本应是明明朗朗的爱情成了一场麓战,谁先动心谁就满盘皆输万劫不复.是谁把简单复杂化？

其实说穿了

暧昧,是可以推脱责任的游戏,没有承诺就无需负责;

暧昧,是勇敢者的游戏,无畏的人才能在角逐中进退自如;

如果你没有铁石铸就的心肠做软胃甲,那么你就别拿暧昧当爱情！




P/S
暧昧
是一种蛮刺激的游戏
在玩游戏时
你会很享受
但是
一不小心就会跌入陷井
无可自拔
如果
真的喜欢上对方
就表白
不要放弃任何机会
暧昧不仅你会掉进他的陷井
他也有可能掉进你的陷井你不知道呢
在他身边还没有另一个"她"时
请把握机会
如果只是打发时间的游戏
玩游戏之前
请了解游戏规则
玩游戏时
请遵守游戏规则
游戏结束后
请别再留念
既然游戏结束
还去怀念有何用?
耸耸肩
等着下一个游戏的到来吧 =]
enjoy~

Do you love someone by the way he or she know nothing? It's what the article want to say, and what the article say was so so correct and HUMAN should know it clearly, coz it always exists among human ourselves.. 暧昧 is something which is very complicated, and please keep yourself away if you are not ready to accept the things to happen [to you or he/ she].. but if you really love him/ her, just do it and let them know, before it was too late.. maybe the result is good or maybe worst, but at least they know the truth..

暧昧 may be a sweet thing to happen, but it also a bitter and hard thing to face over..
It may be a fun game, but it also may be a hurting game..

- 暧昧 -