Lend me one please?
just a week
=)
How is your Chinese New Year preparation?
yay happy counting-down mood!
LOVES
Monday, January 31, 2011
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
1Malaysia.com
1Malaysia.com?
Have you sign up?
hey Malaysians . . .
Malaysia's number ONE social network wor.. what do you think?
it supporting its main competitor face-the-book wor, brand new competitive strategic management huh?
only Malaysian can be member? nowadays globalization wor, it's risky to keep your business inside just one border lo LOL
tell me, good or not?
=D
Time
is money
and it passes SO fast hmmm
Did you realize that the first month of 2011 is already coming to an end? in just a blink. one month is going to over. and each month passes this fast. ouch i couldn't bear with it.
ouch aging. i never feel "time flies" until i came to college three years ago. I was getting busier in college life and i felt time really flies ohhhh my God! I was once thought why my studying life never end wan, how many years i have to stuck in the middle of books books BOOKS and assignments?
but I have only 7 months to go before my internship =/ ohhhh my..... I'm not a student anymore hmmm
means i'm getting older okay blerrrrrr
I start to wonder. how is my life there in the future . . .
anyway. I'm still very excited to welcome everything that comes to me. muahaha =D
wey i can't resist Shopping this year ohhhhh my GOD!! do you feel the same? muahaha spreading virus lol i decided to stop lah, ermmmm but i still need a pair of shoes (never ending, again).... bla bla bla
i can feel its existence already! Happy early Chinese New Year everyone!
Be Healthy
Be Happy
LOVES
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
Time gap
I never realize I can ever get to know and feel how's the time gap. you know. the time gap between the land i stand here, in Malaysia, and New Hampshire.
and yes. there's 13 hours in different. We are 13 hours faster than them! ouch I don't know, seriously =/
knowing this is exciting, but yet I felt a little bit of disappointment. I don't know why. maybe it's because of the power of time gap (people say "jet lag" can even make people feels dizzy and uncomfortable), and i just couldn't accept they are slower (in terms of the time)?
and is this means that we are having extra 13 hours to complete DE task before the due? this suppose to be a good news what. hmm LOL
use this application! =)
Happy 11.1.11 =D Wish you have a nice day!
LOVES
Thursday, January 6, 2011
20歲後的女人 請學會…
1.当你过了二十岁的生日以后，请记得学会化妆。这里所谓的化妆并不是要你化的多么浓妆艳抹。是要给自己与他人一个好的精神状态。二十岁以前不化妆叫清纯，可爱。二十岁以后化妆是对别人的尊重，二十二岁以后化妆是对自己的尊重。我想，如果一个连自己面部都打理不好的女人，如何能让别人对自己产生好感呢？
2.任何情况下，请让自己的情绪尽量处于平和的状态。哪怕一件事情让你很抓狂，但你需要平静的分析，做出最好的应对措施。没有任何人能够容忍一个暴戾的，不能控制自己脾气女人。
3.不要在人多或者有陌生人的地方说脏话。一个女人，出口成脏，并不会显得豪放，只会让别人觉得你没有教养。如果出口成脏，你的朋友与男友是羞于带你出门的。
4.不要像个泼妇一样在大街上与人争吵。试问，如果你在街上看到一个衣着光鲜，明眸皓齿的女子与别人在大街上指着别人的鼻子与人争吵，你会是什么感觉？
5.学会尊重。有的女性看到酒店的服务员，陪酒的小姐，出卖肉体的女孩会嘲笑并厌恶别人，觉得自己比她们高人一等。但是，请你想想，无论她们出卖任何东西，她们都是凭自己的努力去赚钱。可能她们出卖青春，出卖身体，但有一点你要相信，她们的钱是通过自己挣来的。她们没有偷，没有抢。
6.学会宽容。原谅那些伤害过你的人，是他们的伤害让你成长成熟。仇恨是一把双刃剑，刺伤别人，也会伤到自己。真正的报复是漠视和原谅伤害你的人，你的漠视与原谅会让他们觉得自己很渺小。
7.相信地久天长的爱情是存在的。或许你经历了男友的背叛，但请你相信，背叛你的人曾经也真诚的爱过，但他爱的那个人可能不是你。所以，请始终对爱情抱着积极的态度，这样容易得到幸福。
8.不要轻易抽男人耳光。除非他真的是卑鄙无耻下流。男人最在乎的是面子，你可以打的他满地找牙，但不要轻易打他的脸。打他的脸跟说他性功能不行有一样的效果。
9.我认为，一个女人一生最宝贵的财富不是拥有多大的权力，多高的地位，多少的金钱，而是在时间与经历的历练下，磨炼出良好的修养与气度。
10.学会做饭。我想这一点很多女孩会不屑，现在还要做饭吗？去外面多方便。但请你相信我，没有一个男人愿意找一个连面条都不会煮的女孩。即使偶尔犒赏自己，也应该跟妈妈学几道家常菜。
11.记得妈妈与爸爸的生日，还有自己的。在这三个日子里，请你回家陪伴他们，给他们做一餐饭，陪他们聊聊天。因为是他们把你带到这个世界上。尤其是你的生日，那是妈妈的受难日。
12.坚持有一份自己的工作。无论你的家庭与男友，老公多富有，但还是要工作。首先，你不会与这个社会发展脱轨，其次也会有一个自己的朋友圈，更重要的是，当你与提供你物质生活的人分开后，你还能够养活自己。
13.要有一个信念。这点很重要，信念是伴随一生的，有了一个信念，你便有了一个生活的目标。
14.对感情要认真，对爱情要忠贞。我们难免会被别人追求，当别人追求你，而你并不想与之交往的时候，请你明确的告诉他。不要玩暧昧，暧昧会伤害一颗有爱的心。对待爱情，要忠贞，相爱的时日里，请忠于对方，不爱的时候要果断的提出来，这样会省去很多不必要的纠缠与伤害。
15.忍让并尊敬你丈夫的母亲。如果你结婚了，与婆婆的关系处理的不好，请你尽量的忍让。并且不要对爱人数落他母亲的不对。你要知道，是你的婆婆把你的爱人带到这个世界上，是这个女人耗尽了青春与心力抚养教育了你的爱人。你一纸婚书就让这个男人跟随了你，请你想想那个生他养他的女人的感受。
16.学会保护自己。在自己随身携带的包里放一只安全套。这个社会每天都有女性受到性侵害，如果你不幸遇到了这样的事，又没有办法求救，那么，安全套会让罪犯对你的伤害减少，至少不会意外怀孕或者得传染病。
17.尽量少喝酒，少抽烟。现在女人喝酒抽烟不是什么大事，但对自己的身体健康不好，尤其是对以后的宝宝不好。如果你准备要宝宝，请提前一年戒烟戒酒。
18.控制眼泪。女人是水做的，所以眼泪就成了女人的专利。但我想说，不要让你的眼泪泛滥，尤其是在工作上，会让上司与同事认为你太脆弱，不能委以重任。其次，太多的眼泪招人烦。记住，眼泪解决不了任何问题。
19.每天让自己有一段时间阅读。无论是报纸，杂志，新闻，小说，请每天至少有半个小时去做。这样可以提升自己的学识。没有人喜欢一个金玉其外，败絮其中，胸无点墨的女人。
20.做个聪明的女人。聪明不是说让你算计谁，而是能够看清别人的阴谋，而你可以不动声色的化解危机。包括爱人的出轨，同事的算计。
21.学会微笑。我们会有很多烦心的事情缠绕，但，请在出门后保持优雅的微笑，你的微笑会让更多的人快乐，也会淡化你的烦恼。更重要的是，隐藏了自己的弱点，让对你心有不轨的人没有偷袭你的机会。
22.信守承诺。当你答应别人一件事情后，请尽自己的能力做好。如果你没有能力做到，那就不要轻易许诺，否则，别人会越来越不信任你。
23.坚持自己的原则。当别人触到你忍耐的底线的时候，请你大声的说"不"。一个有原则的女人不会让别人觉得不近人情，反而会让别人佩服。
24.克制自己的欲望。包括寂寞时身体的欲望。人的欲望是可怕的，你不加以克制会让自己陷的更深。尤其是情欲，放纵自己的情欲会让别人觉得你滥情并且会骂你是烂货。
25.学会珍惜和感恩。一个懂得珍惜的女人必定是个快乐的人，珍惜每一份情谊，爱情，友情，亲情，这样，内心会是温暖的。懂得感恩的女人是善良的，能够记住对自己有恩，帮助自己的人，会用更多的爱去爱和保护身边的人。
26.学会放手。当你爱的人不爱你了，请放手，并祝他幸福。不要寻死觅活的纠缠，这样只会加深他对你的绝情。更丢失了一个女人的自尊。优雅的离去，会让他在多年以后怀念你们曾经的美好时光。
27.保持自我。女人一但恋爱，就把自己丢失了，为了他改变自己。孰不知，他爱的就是初遇你的样子。一些不好的习惯可以改，但不能盲目的把以前的自己全盘否定。
28.认识自己的错误，然后诚恳道歉。无论是与朋友，家人，爱人相处，如果你错了，请道歉。不要让别人牵就你，一句对不起会让别人觉得你更懂事。
29.选择一个爱好。这个爱好必须是健康的，它可以在你闲暇时，无聊时，郁闷时为你排解情绪，也会让别人觉得你有一个特殊的才艺。
30.自尊，自爱，自强。老调重谈，也是最最重要的。做到这三点，说实话，很难。因为女人可能因为感情而将这三点抛下，或者将其中的一些抛下。但这三点，对于一个女人来说，是社会与他人对自己肯定的决定性筹码。没有这三点，女人将是随波的浮萍，男人的玩物，别人嘲笑的对象。所以，请所有女孩，女子，女人牢记，一定要自尊，自爱，自强。
一直让自己做一个尽量不让别人讨厌的人。我们不可能让所有人都喜欢我们，但我们尽量不让别人讨厌。能做到不让别人讨厌，已经是一件很不容易的事了。所以，所有的女孩，女子，女人，让我们一起加油吧。
saw this from a note in Facebook. I found some of them are quite meaningful and accurate.
Girls, never forget to love yourself. You are the best!
had a new haircut today. Feel so fresh and new! Please get used to my new fringe ;p
Have a nice day!
LOVES
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
What's the problem if people think that I don't have enough credibility?
that's not easy. It is not only about how close you are with them, or how long do you know them. The thing is totally different.
On the way to build some creditworthiness.
Yes, I started my new semester, should have said this is my last two semester in HELP.ICT (no they changed their name, HELP College of Art and Technology, better not?). I felt so grown up, do you? People wear new clothes already, I'm not getting my salary yet =( People have new hair cuts and hair colors already, I need to go to saloon very soon, mine are all out of shape already =( People have a matured thinking and act like grown up boys/girls already, so do I =)
On the way to set new me. set new goal. set new life.
How about internship in the coming August? need to look for some good workplace already =)
I'm taking DE course this semester. owh Week1 Discussion Board is to INTRODUCE, the Icebreaker. I never thought icebreaker session can be held like that. I hope that's a good start. I am not the youngest though, but some of them are really much older than me. Most of them are married (some even divorced), some even with kids (and pets =D), most are working and studying (studying is just part time for them, they use super long time to get an BS degree, but they are really much experienced than me, I felt so weak). They've got great living experiences, they moved and went to many places (provinces in states or countries), they did alot of things they have challenging, interesting hobbies. oh God I felt so little in myself.
On the way in enriching myself, mentally and physically.
I met new friends (quite a lot from the year 2010 until now compared to the past) and I love meeting with interesting people. But I love, much much more, in bonding. Bond with long lost friends. Keep in touch with old friends. Heart-to-heart talks with best friends. Bonding is better than having 500 unknown Facebook friends or Tweeter followers. What ya get?
On the way in maintaining active friendship networks. what to do? I need friends, other than family and bf.
hey call me strawberry girl. I don't know why, I'm kinda related to strawberry lately =) I bought this strawberry hair curler in Setia Alam night market, cute not? ;p
okay saya sangat random. tapi u gembira kan? u gembira saya gembira, itulah yang paling bagus!
Good night folks!
Happy New Year. It's already 4th day of January. Fast not? Grab with your time, don't let it flies like that. =)
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